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THANK YOU!!!!!

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I love this passage from Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert, “In the end, though, maybe we must all give up trying to pay back the people in this world who sustain our lives. In the end, maybe it’s wiser to surrender before the miraculous scope of human generosity and to just keep saying thank you, forever and sincerely, for as long as we have voices.” It pretty much sums up how I feel right now about the amazing circle that continues to surround us through this journey.

I sent out an email a little over a week ago, requesting donations to help supply baby formula, diapers, underwear and other basic needs to the orphanage where W lives and as of today, $2905 has been raised!!!  I started off with what I thought was a lofty goal of raising $2000.  I quickly increased the goal to $2500 when we had such a huge response on day one, and clearly we have surpassed even that.  It shows me how much people want to make a difference in the life of a child and how when given the chance, they will do their part. There are those that would argue this approach to philanthropy–that it’s a band aid on a much larger problem.  I couldn’t agree more.  But while those larger issues are tackled, there are children in need and I am grateful to our family and friends who joined us in reaching out to them.

You can’t even begin to take in the scope with one camera shot of all that we have bought with the donations, but this is a small representation.  It includes cloth diapers, tons of formula (including much needed soy formula for lactose intolerant babies), books to build a library in a rural school, children’s underwear, diaper cream, writing pens for a women’s literacy program, and lots of other little things that were requested by the two organizations we will visit while in Ethiopia.  It’s a good thing the kids are going with us because we need the baggage allowances to take everything!

The following is a list of our donors, whom we cannot thank enough for their generosity:

Ann Mazenko
Meghan and Michael Crook
Katherine Atkinson
Noel and Kristin Mayeske
Connie Hewitt
Theresa, Jon, Macy, and Eva East
Julie and Curt Cloninger
Kim and Raymond Turpin
Penny Wallace
Susan Kumpf
Hayes Mercure
Meridith and Chris Oys
Mary Beth and Craig Williams
Carol and Jay Clarke
Julie and Jamie Gerdes
Rebecca East and Warren Berry
Molly and Daniel Crook
Amanda and Chad Muri
Anda Broom
Tammy and Adam Mercure
Kelly and Brandon Anderson
Bill Mercure
Jamie Doster
Meggan and Chris Graves
Nancy Lux
Jennifer Jacobson
Susan Smartt
Michael Tuggle and Kyung Lah
Heather Lea
Reina and Richard Steele
Pet and Wayne Williams
Donna and Dick Muri
Jennifer and David Goodson
Keith and Gwen Koepsel
Kristen Hammett
Val and Carl Powell
Billie Venner
The list doesn’t stop here though.  There are so many others to thank for their acts of kindness and generosity:
Katie, Diana, and Katie’s Mom:  For helping me package 250 bags of toffee for a corporate order I signed up for the day before we knew about our court date.  They saved me nights of solo work by pitching in and knocking it out with me in a few hours.  HUGE thanks!
Shannon and Jesse:  For dogsitting Isabelle for us while we travel, saving us a ton of money with kennel fees. Isabelle thanks you too for saving her from two weeks at the kennel 🙂
Amanda:  For holding down the fort that is Blue Ridge Bake Shop while I’m gone.
Chad:  For holding down the fort that is Wells Fargo Advisors while Larry is gone.
Theresa:  My sister in law, my friend.  For listening to me ramble and ramble and RAMBLE on adoption issues for the last year.  She has held my hand like no one else could through this roller coaster, and when we were on the brink of pulling the plug on the entire process when Ethiopia drastically changed some policies with adoptions, she helped talked me off the ledge.  I am forever grateful for everything that she is and continues to teach me.  She and Jon paved the way for this journey and have led us to our third child.  Without their story, there would be no story for us.
Louise, Asheville adoptive mom to an Ethiopian daughter:  She has answered my endless questions about traveling and adoption with honesty and candor that I respect tremendously. I am thankful to have discovered her through our agency and am thankful for a blossoming friendship.
Meggan:  For leading the way with her own family’s adoption, proving to me that it is possible for an older Ethiopian child to adjust to an entirely new world here in Waynesville.  Her faith and strength inspire me and I can only hope to pull off motherhood to W as well as she has to her son.  I had a great conversation with B at an adoption picnic recently, and he stole my heart with his innocence and determined spirit. I can’t wait for W to meet him.
Blue Ridge Books and News:  For helping us purchase so many great books to fill the library at Common River (www.commonriver.org).  Thank you for the discount, allowing our donations to stretch even further!
WACAP forums (our agency’s Yahoo group):  Thank you for answering every random question I’ve posted about traveling!  I have probably come across as a lunatic with all my questions and concerns, and I cannot thank this group of women (and a few men) enough for all their sound advice.  Megan, in Atlanta, has especially helped us by encouraging our visit to Common River.  Her daughter remembers W from the orphanage and has told us, “He was a nice boy, not shy.  He likes to play, play, play, play!” When you know so little about your future child, discovering these little bits about their personalities are like winning the lottery.
Lindsay, my fellow WACAP Buddy whose future son is in the same orphanage as W.  We have yet to meet but our sons are probably friends and spend their days together.  We have walked in the same shoes the past few months with waiting for a court date and now get to share in the excitement of both having an end in sight to the wait.  I thank her for being a great sounding board through all this and can’t wait for our boys to reunite in the states!

Mama:  How I would love to know if she is watching all this unfold in some form.  And how I would love more than anything for her to be on the other end of the phone every day, listening to the latest developments and without a doubt, traveling with us to meet him.  But since I cannot have what I wish for, I am doing my best to be content with what I have–her love for me, for my family, and for this child–a love that transcends death.  Without her death and the impact it has had on my life, I am not sure I personally would have had the courage to start the adoption process.  And so I thank her, above all, for this journey.

This is by no means a complete list of everyone we need to thank.  Countless acts of kindness fill our days.  And because I am walking around completely sleep deprived from all the excitement and stress of what’s to come, I am sure I have forgotten to thank someone for something specific.  If so, it does not reflect my gratitude, I can assure you!
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  1. eastiopians

    June 17, 2011 at 4:38 pm

    I am crying at work! Tons of love back at you guys and W! Our sweet sweet W! Can't wait to camp with you all this weekend…so see you in the mountains tonight where we will celebrate this beautiful boy who is joining our family and the father's J and L for father's day, who both stand strong and loving for their ever growing families. Your mama is so proud of you Nancy.

  2. Anonymous

    June 17, 2011 at 9:19 pm

    Your Mom is smiling about this… and the best part begins soon!
    – Noel

  3. Molly

    June 18, 2011 at 4:48 pm

    Well said Noel:) Grandmother's mother always told her "The best is yet to come". Couldn't agree more!

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